I woke up to 6 missed calls from my friend’s ex-girlfriend. Instantly, I knew the chicken had come home to roost.


Before my recent trip to Bucharest, Romania, my friend’s girlfriend called me and we had a lengthy conversation. I spent majority of my time at the airport talking to her.


Her complaints were warehouse full—and she was looking to end their relationship.


I told her that the market is not that good and whoever is deceiving her to consider jumping into it, does not wish her well. 


She actually told me that there were plenty of fishes in the sea and I responded: that saying applies to women and not men.


I explained to her that only about 1% to 10% of men in the world have the educational, financial and social standing that the man she is dating has—so he is the catch and not her. And the moment she jumps out, probably 15 women will jump to take her position.


She wouldn’t listen to me and kept going on. I kept telling her that, most of the men in the dating market are not really looking for anything long term even if slightly chaotic—they will probably take her little money and give her many folds of the issues she is complaining about. I meant, the value worse out there without even the unique benefits she enjoys because she has a “high value man.”


Within 3 days of our call, she ended the relationship on the basis that she doesn’t feel she is being loved right and also cited incompatibility.


For the last few weeks, my friend says she has been texting her regularly and oddly calling him. Now, she says she wants them to give the relationship another try.


My friend also says, “he hates Sankofa” even if our mutual friend is called Sankofa. And that he has given his attention and mind to another woman since she left.


This morning’s missed calls when I returned them was to tell me about how my friend did not care about the relationship and didn’t even fight for it when she said she had ended things—and that immediately it ended, my friend got other girls.


I replied; “Adwoa, I told you so”. What happened to the plenty fishes in the sea, I asked? 


Now, my friend says he has 4 other women and if she wants a return, then she will become girlfriend number 5—with attention and care matching her position. 


She asked me: how did someone get 5 girlfriends within less than 2 months and that she thinks my friend is lying so she will take her chances and see if indeed what he is saying is the truth. 


Not only that, my friend has a list of new rules for her come back. He is not going to be paying for many of the regularly things he used to pay for her including her phone bill and personal care stuff. 


She says, that cannot happen. Things cannot change this drastic. 


It’s going to be a long weekend of calls. 


The market is not that good so if you have a man with some value, don’t go messing things up—because it’s bomb out there.


Adwoa is in a fix. Opana too is currently in Scotland with his new catch—enjoying the cold weather in one hotel room together and they have booked a spa session this afternoon.


I don’t know why many women don’t still know that a lot of men usually want to leave and find new mating partners after a few weeks or months—but out of dignity, care, love and conscience, they stay. Men are wired different from women. 


Good Morning to you wherever you are. 


CREDIT:—-Chris-Vincent Agyapong, A Hedonist, Contrarian, Lawyer, Polygamy Evangelist, Soft Life Ambassador, Atheist, Thinker, Writer, Minimalist, Soft Life Ambassador & A Professional Truth Sayer