NEVER date a woman you see every day,

Or you risk stifling the romance, and eventually boring her & losing her.

This includes: same compound, class, workplace etc. (Don't shit where you eat!)

This is how it works:

• Seduction requires space.

• Space creates mystery.

• Mystery strokes her imagination & creates excitement.

All these are necessary for social bonding.

This is also applicable when you marry:

Find a way to create space between you & your spouse.

Don't choke them with your presence.

It numbs their desire for you.

Desire lubricates sexual intimacy.

Don't risk it.

Even your forefathers unconsciously practised this principle. 

They build a house, away from their many wives, and invite them over.

And them in return, venerate him as a God.

Last words, 

Over-familiarity stifles sexual attraction. 

Beware!